Many families are unsure how to plan financially when they first are faced with news that a child with special needs is on the way. More on that later -- first we'd like to point out a state-of-the art facility called Jill's House that is creating quite a buzz locally:
Jill’s House will offer an exceptional experience for children with special needs. There will be activities within the music, art, and computer rooms; in the indoor pool; on the outdoor playground; and within the three unique lodging areas all designed especially for children with special needs. - Jill's HouseFor parents and caregivers of Special Needs children who require either short and intermittent care or long term care, everyday tasks can be draining. If day-to-day efforts seemingly go unnoticed, remember the words of poet Heather Cortez, "To the world you may be one person, but to one person you may be the world."
What qualifies a child as a "Special Needs" child? The term is used broadly as illustrated by this information guide: "Pick any two families of children with special needs, and they may seem to have little in common."
Parents of Special Needs children need to plan for their financial future carefully, although when faced with shocking news regarding a child, it is completely normal to be in an emotional state of disarray. Meet Jason and Amanda:
Jason and Amanda Purnell met while getting their Ph.D.s in psychology at Ohio State, married in 2007, and were ecstatic when Amanda became pregnant shortly before they moved to St. Louis last July to be near family. Then they learned that their 22-week-old fetus had Down syndrome. They were shocked -- at 29, Amanda was well below the at-risk age to conceive a baby with this condition. "The first 24 hours, I was inconsolable."We know we'll be financially supporting Maya for the rest of our lives," Jason tells CNN.
What should a Special Needs family do to prepare? At least three measures should be strongly considered, some obvious and others not so obvious: Save as much money as possible, plan for 3 retirements, and consider a special needs trust.
For example, the family mentioned above created a trust but it won't be operational until both spouses are dead. This can be problematic if friends or family members want to contribute to the child's care during her life. This can be accomplished through a special-needs trust and can even work without risking the loss of federal disability benefits.
For much more information on Special Needs trusts, click here.
"Anyone can give up, it's the easiest thing in the world to do. But to hold it together when everyone else would understand if you fell apart, that's true strength."
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